1. Hey guys, before you make that proposal find time to read this; If you’re
thinking of asking your girlfriend to become your wife, deciding if
you’re ready to make the commitment to marriage is only half the battle.
You have to be absolutely sure that the woman in your life is someone
you’ll be happy spending time with day in and day out. Love alone is not
enough to make a marriage work, and certain characteristics are warning
signs for a troubled marriage down the road. Here are some of the most
obvious signs that your girlfriend is not marriage material.
1.
She cuts you off from loved ones. A girlfriend who always becomes sick
when it’s time to spend quality time with your family and even forbids
you from hanging out with your friends will only act worse after you say
your vows.
2.2. She bails on you when times get tough.. Life
isn’t always a bowl of cherries, but that doesn’t mean that the woman in
your life should just disappear when the times get tough. If your
girlfriend is not supportive of you emotionally through difficult times
and only stands by you when things are going good, she’s not the one you
should be walking down the aisle with.
3. She displays psychotic
behaviors. A woman who breeds chaos, misunderstanding and insanity might
not be the best person to swear your undying loyalty to. If she
displays severe psychological problems now, imagine what kind of
influence her crazy and irrational behaviors will have on your future.
Marrying a woman like this will most likely ruin your life and your
perception of women forever.
4. She’s too clingy.... If your
girlfriend can’t go anywhere or do anything without you, calls you
twenty times a day and destroys any chance of you missing her because
the two of you are never apart, she’s going to make a bad wife.
5.
She has nothing going on for herself... You should want to marry a
woman who has goals and brings something better to your life, not one
who is up to her neck in debt, has no income, displays unpredictable
behaviors and has tried numerous, short-lived career paths yet never
knows what she wants in life. This type of fickle lifestyle could derail
your own life plan as well.
6. She’s controlling... If your
girlfriend controls all of your conversations, constantly forces you
into agreeing with her and acts as an overbearing, emotional bully,
it’ll only get worse after you say “I do.”
7. She already cheated
on you.. Do you honestly believe that a woman is marriage material if
she has been unfaithful to you while you were dating? Yes, a person can
always change and learn from their mistakes; however, a cheating
girlfriend will more than likely continue to be unfaithful after
marriage.
8. Her libido doesn’t match yours... Another sign that
she’ll make a bad wife is if her libido differs wildly from yours. The
way you relate to each other in the bedroom has a big influence on
whether the two of you will stay together after wedding vows are
exchanged, so it’s best to work this out before you walk down the aisle.
9.
She’s extremely jealous... Although a little bit of jealousy is
essential for a healthy relationship, extreme jealousy arises in a
relationship because of high levels of insecurity. If your girlfriend is
jealous of every girl who comes near you, refuses to accept that you
have female friends and feels threatened when you discuss your previous
relationships, putting a ring on her finger is not going to make her
more secure
10. She can’t admit when she’s wrong... If she always
seem to have the upper hand in arguments, refuses to admit her faults or
even treat you as an equal, she’s not the marrying kind.
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